Monday, June 30, 2014

Random vacation and summer time fun!

     Life is great with my house full of boys! Noah is adjusting really well to his baby brother and will actually give him hugs and kisses now. Elijah loves both of his brothers, and Jacob gets a kick out of watching the older two play.
     A couple weeks ago, Josh had the great idea to take a trip to NC and surprise everyone. I was very excited, but nervous about the 13 hour drive with 3 little boys. The trip went way better than we expected. All the boys did better than we thought they would. The only crazy incident was Noah's diaper explosion! He has never had an out of diaper explosion, that I can recall, but on the trip he sure did. It was pretty gross, but gave me a good laugh to watch Josh change him and be so grossed out, hehe. We decided to stay at the house that Josh and I first lived in, which his grandparents own. It was nice to be back somewhere with such great memories. It was so different than our base townhouse. It was quiet and relaxing. We had a wonderful time seeing all of our family, and even had a small birthday party for Noah's 2nd birthday. He had such a fun time getting to eat a bunch of junk food and be spoiled by everyone.
           
                We got to take our sweet Elijah on a lunch date. He loved getting Josh and I all to himself :).
           
           Jacob loved sitting outside, watching his brothers play in the water. He is such a cute chunker!!
Josh was even able to get a couple more days of leave so we could visit a little longer. We didn't want to leave! We headed back, and Josh thought it would be fun to stop a little over half way at a hotel so we could all get out of the car and relax for the night. We ate supper at Chick-fil-a, let the boys play in the play area, and ended the night cuddled in bed, watching Up.
Overall, we had a wonderful time and can't wait to go back in August!!

We've been busy since we've been back, but my life is pretty much always busy :). The boys have been playing outside in the water, building forts, playing at the park, and of couse, being wild in the house. Noah is now 2 years old! He tries hard to keep up with his big brother. He is such a sweet, tenderhearted boy. He hates to get in trouble and loves to cuddle all the time. So far, he is definitely less challenging than Elijah lol. 

Jacob is growing so fast! He is now 3 months old! The last three months seem like one big blur! Time seems to go by so much faster with the more kids I have. He is such a sweet, easy going baby. The past 3 nights he has slept from 8 p.m until 6 a.m.! He eats, then goes back to sleep for a few more hours. I told Josh, if I could guarantee that all my babies would be like him, I'd probably have 4 more, hehe. He is such a great addition to our family, and I love cuddling him as much as I can. The baby stage doesn't last near long enough!
                       
                          He found his thumb when his brothers were being loud and woke him up.

                                                             Cute curly-headed boys <3

Monday, April 14, 2014

Our new addition!

     So life has been crazy the past couple weeks! I now have three little boys to take care of and love on :). I've been wanting to write about baby Jacob's arrival and life since and am finally able to take a few minutes and get it done. At my last check up, I was almost 39 weeks, almost 4 cm dilated, and knew that he could come at any time. I was worried about when I would go into labor because our friends were going to watch the boys, and I wanted to make sure they were available and not at work or something. Early Saturday morning, March 29th, I woke up at 3:25 with a painful contraction. I felt like I had to use the bathroom, and Eli was sleeping in our room, so I went downstairs. I was having really bad stomach cramps, but thought that it might just be gas. I started checking the clock every time I had a pain and they started to be about 2-3 minutes apart. Since it was so early I wanted to make sure that it wasn't gas before I called anyone. I went to lay down on the couch, but was in a lot of pain. I coughed slightly when I was laying down and felt as if my water broke. I stood up to go to the bathroom and had a gush come out. At this point, I was positive I was in labor, so I called my doula. I explained everything to her and she confirmed that I was definitely in labor. I woke Josh up and we got all our stuff together, called our friends to watch the boys, and headed to the hospital. We left for the hospital at about 5 and it took about 15 minutes to get there. Since it was so early, there wasn't anyone at the check in desk, so I sat down and waited probably another 10 minutes before someone took me back to get checked out. I was 7 cm dilated and contractions were one on top of the other. I finally got back to a room and could hardly move. I just sat on the bed, trying to breath through the contractions. I told Josh and my doula, Aime, that I didn't know if I could do it naturally. I didn't have any break between contractions, the nurses kept poking me and messing with the monitors they strapped on me (which I didn't want to begin with), so I was in pain and getting crabby. I suddenly felt the urge to push, so they started setting everything up for that. Josh and Aime were by my side comforting me and telling me to breath. I just started pushing and could feel his head coming out. At this point, none of the nurses were paying any attention to me and my doctor hadn't arrived yet. I yelled out that he was coming, Aime lifted my gown, and sure enough baby was crowning. A few moments later, my doctor walked in. He quickly got ready and just barely caught baby Jacob. They laid him directly on me and in that moment, I felt so much joy that I don't think I've experienced with my past 2 births. He was born at 6:25, exactly 3 hours after my first contraction. It was so fast, I was able to have him all natural, while my other two births were induced and had an epidural. I felt so amazing knowing I did it without any drugs. It didn't go exactly as I had imagined, but I believe it went way better! I prayed that it would be the experience that I wanted and it was so much more.
     This is my sweet Jacob Edward Kirkman. Born at 6:25 a.m. on March 29th, weighing 8 lbs 12 oz and 21 1/4 inches long.


Life with boys hasn't been all that crazy yet. Josh has had the past two weeks off and he's been an amazing help! Noah doesn't like his new baby brother, but hopefully he'll warm up soon. Elijah loves him! He gets so excited when he wakes up and opens his eyes. I love having three little boys! All three are going through different stages and it's so fun watching them grow. It all goes by way to fast, but I am enjoying every moment with all of them!

Monday, January 27, 2014

My crazy boys!

     These boys are so crazy! In the past week, Noah fell and busted his lip, Eli got hurt playing with his friend and busted his lip, and today, after his lip finally healed, Noah fell again and bust his lip open. I hate when they get hurt, but it seems to be a constant thing in this house! I can only imagine how crazy my house is going to be when I have 3 wild little boys lol.
     We found out in October that baby #3 is another boy. We were a little disappointed at first, but are super excited now to add another sweet boy to our family. I am 30 weeks now, so not too much longer until we meet our little Jacob. I'm glad we're getting to the end because this pregnancy is starting to wear on me. I'm getting tired easier and just uncomfortable. I have also developed PUPPP. I'm not quite sure what it stands for, but it's little, itchy, red dots all over. Luckily it isn't too bad, but it can get pretty uncomfortable. I am getting excited for delivery. I've been meeting with a doula and talking to my doctor about doing a more natural approach. With my clotting disorder and being on blood thinners, doctors tend to intervene more at birth, but my doctor seems pretty open to trying things how I want. He's open to not making me induce at 39 weeks and letting me labor in the water and walk around, instead of being confined to the bed all strapped up to monitors and wires. Hopefully it'll be the experience that I want.
     I'm hoping the boys adjust well to the new baby. Elijah is such a little handful! Today I caught him splashing all the water out of the toilet and then loading a different toilet up with pieces of toilet paper. He seems to always get into something which then teaches Noah how to make nice, big messes lol. I know it's going to be a lot of work with 3 boys ages 3 and under, but I'm excited!